To Calm My Unquieted Mind!'s "My True & Intented Mate's 1001 Finest Qualities!!!"

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1. 1. integrity Drag me to re-order

2. 2. Afrocentric Drag me to re-order

3. 3. Global minded Drag me to re-order

4. 4. spiritual Drag me to re-order

5. 5. Centred Drag me to re-order

6. 6. grounded Drag me to re-order

7. 7. unconditionally loving Drag me to re-order

8. 8. Charasmatic Drag me to re-order

9. 9. focused Drag me to re-order

10. 10. Deep Drag me to re-order

11. 11. Committed Drag me to re-order

12. 12. Be More than an Ideas Person - know how to put ideas into effective action - over the course of time Drag me to re-order

13. 13. Be Committed to Peace - Mind, Body, & Spirit Drag me to re-order

14. 14. Love my son as his own - just as I am willing & able to do for his children Drag me to re-order

15. 15. be sensual Drag me to re-order

16. 16. Practice tantric sex Drag me to re-order

17. 17. Be committed to Global Peace, Justice, Education, & Health - Be Willing & Ready to Dedicate Himself Wholly to These Very Things Drag me to re-order

18. 18. be intuitive Drag me to re-order

19. 19. Be Strong - Not in that stereotypical sense - but what true strength is - mind, body, & spirit... The finest example of "manhood" Drag me to re-order

20. 20. Family-oriented... knowing that is more than spreading your "seed"... it's about truly giving of oneself to one's family of origin - but also to the world family Drag me to re-order

21. 21. Trustworthy Drag me to re-order

22. 22. Be in love with his culture, community, heritage & committed to it's greater good - committed in action - not just principle Drag me to re-order

23. 23. Know his history Drag me to re-order

24. 24. Be able to name at least 5 Afrikan countries - more is better... Drag me to re-order

25. 25. Know about recent past & current events in Afrika & the Middle East - be able to have intelligent discussions on such matters - & actually be interested in them Drag me to re-order

26. 26. Never use the "n" word - affectionately or otherwise Drag me to re-order

27. 27. Know the words to the Afrikan Amerikan National Anthem Drag me to re-order

28. 28. be outgoing Drag me to re-order

29. 29. Be athletic, adventurous, outdoorsy - a doer... he'll be someone who is active & out there "doing"... he's the one who already has the camping gear - because he's been going for years. He goes skydiving, hiking, backpacking, scuba diving - you name it! Drag me to re-order

30. 30. Confident & Humble Drag me to re-order

31. 31. In-Tune Drag me to re-order

32. 32. Sensitive - without being mamsy pansy. Women often say they want a sensitive guy & don't mean it. I mean it - but, I don't want him to be me... everyone should feel free to cry or express their emotions when the situation calls for it. I am looking for so Drag me to re-order

33. 33. gentle Drag me to re-order

34. 34. My Greatest Lover - In my mind, while the majority of things that truly matter to me are matters of character, I also see my divine right partner as being my all-time best lover ever. I have not been with a great deal of men, but the list of great lovers Drag me to re-order

35. 35. Be that "Safe Place to Fall" Drag me to re-order

36. 36. articulate Drag me to re-order

37. 37. Non-judgmental Drag me to re-order

38. 38. Taller than me - have to have some physical or canal attributes. This isn't a "must have" - but it certainly is a "want". My ex-husband was much shorter than me - that never sat well with me. It shouldn't matter & doesn't always. But, my preference is tal Drag me to re-order

39. 39. natural Drag me to re-order

40. 40. Into Healthfood - raw foods diet would be great. But, just healthy naturally living. Drag me to re-order

41. 41. Cooks Drag me to re-order

42. 42. Shares my view on Polyamory Drag me to re-order

43. 43. Would "never" drive an SUV - & understands why that would be an item on my list Drag me to re-order

44. 44. Knows how to think for himself - does it regularly... meaning, doesn't allow the government, the media, or anyone else to define for him what he thinks or believes. He goes out there & gets information for himself. Drag me to re-order

45. 45. Critical Thinker Drag me to re-order

46. 46. Political Minded - knowing that ALL things, all decisions, all choices, ULTIMATELY are political ones - whether we realize it or not. He does - & he makes sure he is well informed & active Drag me to re-order

47. 47. Is willing to forego material wealth & possessions for the greater good - the work he chooses to do for the world family Drag me to re-order

48. 48. Doesn't want any more children - if he has them already - he is active in their lives: he participates on a daily basis in shaping & molding their future self. He contributes to their financial well-being. Drag me to re-order

49. 49. Speaks respectfully of women in his past - even when that past was difficult. If he has children by another womann - he shows her the utmost of reverence & respect - mirroring for his children what a true man is like. He is close with the women in his fam Drag me to re-order

50. 50. Thinks & Speaks Respectfully about Afrikan Amerikan Women - this is especially true if he is Afrikan Amerikan... Any AA man who dare think ill of where he comes from - dare not tread near me... lol (it's getting late - the list is becoming less "positive" Drag me to re-order

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