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Songs mentioned on mix tapes in book "Love is a Mix Tape"

Publisher’s Weekly reviewed it thusly:
"A celebratory eulogy for life in "the decade of Nirvana," rock critic (Rob) Sheffield’s captivating memoir uses 22 "mix tapes" to describe his being "tangled up" in the "noisy, juicy, sparkly life" of his wife, Renee, from the time they met in 1989 to her sudden death from a pulmonary embolism in 1997. Each chapter begins with song titles from the couple’s myriad mixes—"Tapes for making out, tapes for dancing, tapes for falling asleep"—and uses them to describe a beautiful love story: "a real cool hell-raising Appalachian punk-rock girl" meeting in graduate school a "hermit wolfboy, scared of life, hiding in my room with my records," and how they built a tender relationship on the music they loved, from the Meat Puppets to Hank Williams. "

Because of my list-making compulsion, of course I needed to share these with you. Here are the mix tape songs Sheffield mentions in the book. Several turn up many times but they’re only on this list once. After this are the 22 tapes contents with the title, #s they are on the list below, and interesting/quirky comments about them:

1) RUMBLEFISH "She recorded it over a promo cassette by some band called Drunken Boat.." #1-19
2)HEY JUDE "As my Dad and I sat around the house one Saturday afternoon, playing Beatles records, we started batting around the idea that it was theoretically possible to loop a version of ‘Hey Jude" long enough to fill up an entire cassette." That is exactly what this tape is… #20
3)ROLLER BOOGIE-Tape made for Sheffield’s 8th grade dance. "Girls did not care whether a dance tape had the live version of "Carry On Wayward Son" or the studio version. In fact, they did not want to hear "Carry On Wayward Son" at all." #21-42
4)TAPE 635-Recorded circa 1980-1981 for Catholic summer camp (Camp Don Bosco, East Barrington, New Hampshire. A fellow camper and tough guy once confided privately:"I hate disco people-you know, disco PANTS. But there are some disco SONGS, you know, like ‘Funkytown’, that rock." #43-60
5)LOVE MAKES ME DO FOOLISH THINGS-Made after his first breakup, age 21. #61-83
6)BIG STAR:FOR RENEE First mix tape he ever gave his 1st wife, for which the book was written. #84-115
7)SHEENA WAS A MAN- November 1989. Nothing really said about tape specifically. #116-131
8)PERSONICS-This was fad in early 90s where you paid a small amount per song to choose tunes from catalogue and have a custom tape made. "The worst song on this tape is ‘Bird Song’ by the Holy Modal Rounders, which I had never even heard before; I included it because I was curious how bad a song had to be to cost only 50 cents in the Personics booklet." #132-142
9)A LITTLE DOWN,A LITTLE DUVET-"Renee made this tape for us to listen to while falling asleep.." #143-170
10)THAT’S ENTERTAINMENT-July 1991. No anecdotes. #171-196
11)THE COMFORT ZONE-Top 40 of the time. "In some circles, admitting you love Top 40 radio is tantamount to bragging you gave your grandmother the clap, in church, in the front row at your aunt’s funeral, but those are the circles I avoid like the plague, or, for that matter, the clap." #197-223
12)DANCING WITH MYSELF-August 1993. Relates that Kristi Yamaguchi said she psyched herself up for her routines by listening to her favorite band, Nirvana, backstage. "it was an epiphanic moment-punk rock was now music that even figure-skater girls could listen to. The door was open. Our turn had arrived." #224-249
13)HOW I GOT THAT LOOK The title came from a monthly feature in one of her favorite glossy fashion mags, a feature that gave away the secrets of the supermodels. Side One was titled ‘Pink Chocolate Lipstick’. Side Two was titled ‘Laminates and Molding Mud’. #250-277
14)52 GIRLS ON FILM-"Every time I have a crush on a woman, I have the same fantasy: I imagine the two of us as a synth-pop duo." # 278 – 306
15)CRAZY FEELING-Recorded 2 months before Renee’s sudden death. #307-333
16)PARAMOUNT HOTEL-2 months after. "There was a lot of music that summer. I made tapes for the long nights when I would sit out all night in my backyard chair, smoking Camel Lights and listening to my Walkman, staring out into the black woods at the edge of the backyard….Anything to keep from going back into my empty bed in our empty house." #334-361
17)MMMROB-"Hanson’s ‘MMMBop’ and Missy Elliott’s ‘The Rain (Supa Dupa Fly)’ were the first new pop songs I loved that I couldn’t share with Renee." #362-390
18)HYPNOTIZE-October 1997. #391- 411
19)JACKIE BLUE-February 1998. Nice anecdote about Jackie Onassis but too long to relate. #412-438
20)GLOSSIN’ AND FLOSSIN’-December 1998. "This is a classic example of a tape that tries to ruin a bunch of great songs by reminding you of a time you would rather forget." #439-459
21)BLUE RIDGE GOLD-Nice anecdote about his friends hating an AM "Music of your Life" station Rob was addicted to. "The station was stuck in 1963.." This was one of a series of "Cavalier Memories AM 1600" type music. #460-493
22)VIA VESPUCCI-"I made this tape while moving into my new apartment in Brooklyn."

Final note: In acknowledgements Sheffield thanks band Dump for "my favorite song ‘International Airport’ and to everybody who’s ever listened to it on a mix tape from me. I don’t think it’s anybody else’s favorite song yet, but you never know."

Pages: Pages: 1 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11

1.
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Shoot the singer - Pavement (song)
by Pavement
 
2.
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Cemetry Gates - The Smiths (song)
by The Smiths
 
3. Feed the Tree
by Belly
 
4.
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Sugar Tune - Sloan (song)
by Sloan
 
5.
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Shove - L7 (song)
by L7
 
6.
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Bonds in Seconds - Lois (song)
by Lois
 
7.
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In a World without Heroes - Grenadine (song)
by Grenadine
 
8.
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Sugar Baby - The Pooh Sticks (song)
by The Pooh Sticks
 
9.
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Part Past Part Fiction - The Chills (song)
by The Chills
 
10.
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I'm Every Woman
by Whitney Houston
 
11.
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Packin' a Rod - L7 (song)
by L7
 
12.
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R.E.M. - Man On The Moon (single)
by R.E.M.
 
13. Candy Everybody Wants
by 10,000 Maniacs
 
14.
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Sometimes - Royal Trux (song)
by Royal Trux
 
15. Palomine
by Bettie Serveert
 
16.
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We Hate It When Our Friends Become Successful
by Morrissey
 
17.
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Passionate Kisses
by Mary Chapin Carpenter
 
18.
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Texas Never Whispers - Pavement (song)
by Pavement
 
19.
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Slow Dog - Belly (song)
by Belly
 
20.
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Hey Jude (single)
by The Beatles
 
21.
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Dance the Night Away - Van Halen (song)
by Van Halen
 
22.
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Cars (single)
by Gary Numan
 
23.
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I could hurt you - J. Geils Band (song)
by J. Geils Band
 
24.
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Dim All the Lights - Donna Summer (single)  
25.
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Surrender (single)
by Cheap Trick
 
26.
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Turn to Stone - E.L.O. (single)
by E.L.O.
 
27.
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Heart of Glass (single)
by Blondie
 
28.
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Don't look back - Boston (song)
by Boston
 
29.
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Bad Girls (single)
by Donna Summer
 
30.
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Feels Like the First Time - Foreigner (single)
by Foreigner
 
31.
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Free Bird (single)
by Lynyrd Skynyrd
 
32. Pop Muzik
by M
 
33.
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Don't Stop 'til you Get Enough (single)
by Michael Jackson
 
34.
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Musta Got Lost - J. Geils Band (single)
by J. Geils Band
 
35. My Sharona
by The Knack
 
36.
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Another Brick in the Wall, Pt. 2 (single)
by Pink Floyd
 
37.
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Rolling Stones - Wild Horses (single)
by Rolling Stones
 
38.
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Off the Wall - Michael Jackson (song)
by Michael Jackson
 
39.
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Dream On (single)
by Aerosmith
 
40.
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September - Earth,Wind & Fire (single)
by Earth,Wind & Fire
 
41.
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Give it to Me - J. Geils Band (single)
by J. Geils Band
 
42.
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Stairway to Heaven (song)
by Led Zeppelin
 
43.
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Lowdown - Boz Scaggs (single)
by Boz Scaggs
 
44.
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Sweet Talkin' Woman - E.L.O. (single)
by E.L.O.
 
45.
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Reeling in the Years (single)
by Steely Dan
 
46.
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Just What I Needed (single)
by The Cars
 
47.
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Life in the Fast Lane - The Eagles (single)
by The Eagles
 
48.
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(I Can't Get No) Satisfaction (single)
by The Rolling Stones
 
49.
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Bohemian Rhapsody (single)
by Queen
 
50.
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Go Your Own Way (single)
by Fleetwood Mac
 
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Created by Greg on Apr 29, 2007.